For every person that is still a virgin, I have to give it to you, that is something to be proud of not embarrassed about. Sometimes Temptation gets the best of us, we let it control us. & that’s why our purity, innocence gets lost. It’s not something to be ashamed of either, you made that decision & if it was because you wanted it, that’s not something to regret. I wish I could tell every young girl how sex changes everything… That’s why you should wait. It complicates relationships not only for the person your intimate with but with other people, like your parents, or close relationships. It seems like such a simple non complicated decision to make at the time, but the consequences lasts a lifetime. You realize how close that your relationship gets with that person, which is a good thing, but sometimes it’s not.. Because you may still be attached if they leave. I don’t regret who I’ve had sex with, I don’t regret how old I was. I don’t regret it, because my life wouldn’t be the same if I didn’t make that decision. It’s a way to become close with someone, to make a relationship stronger. It’s not meant for just fun… So please, if your going to make a that decision it’s to grow closer with someone; not for your own personal benefit.. You may end up hurting someone if you don’t intend to be with them. Sex changes everything.